I have chosen a vague topic to write at coffee time,
but this is what my mind is going through..... This indicates that I am getting vague these days..haha..may be ..I can’t say…
There is so much that I think I can
write about this but still whenever I decide to type down my thoughts, I find
myself at short of words. I also thought to change the topic for ‘Everything is
right’ to ‘Everything is wrong’ or also to ‘Everything is relative’, but my
heart did not agree to those other two topics.
I daily observe life of people around me
at my home, my workplace. I keep thinking about the incidences of happiness,
sadness, and fights with colleagues, banter, gossips and whatever that I am a
part of in my daily routine. I get many reactions of people when I go through
this in my life. Some I feel are right for me and some are wrong for me. It
took me a long time to understand that what is wrong for me might be right for
somebody else. In-fact I should admit that it did not occur to me till the time
I myself experience the similar situation where I felt bad about the other’s
reaction to me.
Does this mean that I should not feel
bad about anything wrong or bad happened to me?? My heart does not agree to
this but my mind says ‘yes’. There are infinite perspectives of everything that
is happening around me and you. The point is with what perspective are you
looking at the things? The reference frame, the base point changes with every
perspective. This condition is similar to a twelfth class physics question
where a student is asked to calculate the time when the train running on a
railway track will cross past him. This question remains incomplete till the
time the examiner specifies the point from where the student has to observe the
crossing train. The answer to the question will change if the student is on
another moving train from when the student is standing on a stationary ground.
One has to first be completely aware of
this fact, and then proceed to decide the base frame, reference point of his or
her life. Or one has the choice to not have any base frame for his or her
thoughts, the condition where one does not feel good or bad about anything.
I think that this is a tough one to
decide for me and may be for everybody else breathing in the mundane world. Reference
point of your life can be your family, wife, friends etc. Making it more understandable,
one’s nation is the base frame of army people of that nation.
Base frame actually is the top priority of life
that makes you react to any condition, incidence or event that happens with
you.
If you and me understand this fact and decide
our base frame, our top most priority then we can expect to live a happier
life. The conditions, situations may make you happy or sad, but in the long run
you would know that you have this feeling because of you and nobody else.
If you and I understand this fact then
we will be able to control our anger, short-temperedness up to a certain
extent.
At the end, I will say that "Everything
is right"
'all is well'. wish you a happy new year
ReplyDelete@amarnaik
ReplyDeleteYeah...All is well..happy new year..
Keep smiling..
Awesome post .i hope everybody will like your post
ReplyDelete@animation academy
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot. I hope so:)